



My friends, family, and boyfriend are all great and healthy. OH and I cut my hair..like really chopped it off. It's now a bob but I'm gonna go shorter in the back this week so it'll be an A-LINE. =)))




(photo courtesy of: nbc and google.com)Good friends are often hard to find so when you find one, cherish him/her. In times of need, we sometimes don't know how to be there. Doing or saying the wrong thing can bring a bit of distance. I've always thought as friends we should have a holiday. Friendship Day. Once a year, plan a trip, sleepover, gift exchange etc. Just simply appreciate your friendship.
Essence Magazine gave us a few tips on What Not to Do.
-Don't try to cheer her up - there's nothing more irritating, because it makes you feel dismissed. Instead ask how she feels.
-Avoid platitudes like - God never gives us more than we can handle. They can sound preachy. It's better to speak from the heart.
-Don't say "I know just what you're going through" because you don't. Say instead, I can only imagine what you're going through.
-Avoid saying "call me if you need me" instead offer specific forms of help. "I'd like to bring dinner over tonight" No one likes to ask for help.


we seen Chrisette Michele in Concert and she is AMAZING!!!!!
(photo credit by: knowyourmeme.com) 
I see this too often so I have to remind us all. What are we trying to be "bad" for? Other people? Because I see too many people calling women bad based off of her having big breast and an even bigger ass. BUT nobody is asking to see credit scores and resume's. Nope, nobody wants to know what your IQ score is or even your medical history. I'd rather be called smart and business savvy than to be called bad. What makes a bad girl bad to you? Is it the car that she drives? Or maybe her weave is done right? Well lets really give these guys a reason to call us bad. Lets educate our minds and our banking accounts and on top of that have our bodies looking right that our looks will attract them but they can have someone to actually hold a conversation with.
I call my friends bad but that's because I can tell you everything they have going on for themselves is an advantage for their future. Whats your definition of bad?


There is a misconception that women of darker shades shouldn't wear colored lipstick but that would be one big boring and shallow world that we live in. I dress the way I feel and on this particular day, I felt like Red Lips! This was a gift from my bf last year and I misplaced it. Finally found it and couldn't wait to wear it.



p.s. I am slowly marking things off of my To Do List (to the right) -wink-
Shadow Swag
we were having fun seeing who can dig their feet the deepest using NO HANDS (Wale voice)
The Fried Calamari was perfect!
My God Daughter Milania, My Bestfriend Jessica and her boyfriend/babies father Q.




BESIDES THAT, today I had a mini photoshoot with 2 of my friends to promote my site/hats.. Some of the pictures came out REALLY good considering we used a digital camera! ALSO, I was able to preview the website so we can put the final touches on it and let me tell you, I almost cried!!!! Big shout out to @cmkdesigns
Tell a friend to tell a friend to "like" or "fan" the Facebook Page! No Boiz Allowed .. Once we reach 300 followers, I will be doing a giveaway!!!! =)
(front design of the official business cards)